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My (30) wife has become incredibly lazy after we hard our first kid, and even more so now that #2 is on the way... and I (29) am really starting to ......
Solomon M Z Dennis|Aug. 10, 2019
My wife and I have been together for 7 years, married for 4. When she first got pregnant, she was tired all the time. I mean, she hardly got out of bed she was so tired, and I had to spend a lot of time taking care of her. But she was growing our baby and I understood how hard it could be - so I soldiered through. After our son was born, she decided not to go back to work and to stay with him. I thought things would get better and she would start doing more around the house. But they never did. She got used to me cooking, cleaning, and taking care of everything - and even though she is home with him all day she does NOTHING but watch TV all day. She had post-partum depression, so I tried to be understanding and to let her heal and recover in her own time. But things just simply never got better.
Now, we have baby #2 on the way, and it's only gotten worse. To the point I'm wondering if she's even taking care of our son (who is now 14 months). When I get home he's so desperate for attention and I wonder if she's spent any time with him at all or if she's just been glued to the TV.
I'm stressed at work, and my home life has just become absolute misery. I love my wife, and I love my son, and I know I'm going to love our new baby. But I am in hell... I just can't get her to be my partner anymore. I have to take care of everything. Even as I type this, she is taking a nap while I'm watching our son. I just don't know what to do...
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