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My (18F) husband (19M) blames everything on me and I'm not sure if I can handle it anymore.
Lateefah|Aug. 08, 2019
Okay so I feel the need to give some background. I know we are both young, we both felt ready to get married though. I know we have some maturing to do, I just needed to rant and ask for advice. I also am diagnosed with PTSD, depression, and anxiety. I recently started taking medications to help with my symptoms and have noticed an amazing POSITIVE change my mood (I don't get angry as often, which means I am no longer picking arguments).
Anyways, my husband(19M) is a jealous man. I cannot mention another man's name without him accusing me of cheating, which will result in him giving me attitude or trying to argue for hours on end. I have never cheated, I let him check my phone whenever he wants. He also does not bring his friends over to our house in fear that I am going to cheat on him. The few times he has brought friends over, my husband screamed at me (on more than one occasion, even kicking me out of the house) for talking to his friends. I have never given him a reason to suspect that I am cheating on him.
I work two jobs, meaning I work 14+ hour days, I leave the house at 7:30 AM and don't come home until after 10 PM, therefore I am exhausted. My husband will start arguments because I will want to go to sleep instead of staying up until 2 AM with him. He will also get angry if I choose to shower before bed rather than hangout with him. My husband will find any little reason to get angry at me and will find a way to put the blame on me. With the state of my mental health, I am easily manipulated. If he says everything is my fault, I start to believe it and I put plenty of my own bad thoughts in my head. I was so happy because my medication was really starting to help, but with his behavior, I am scared my mental health will end up back where it started.
I would appreciate advice, I love my husband from the bottom of my heart. He has helped me get through many dark places and opened my eyes to a lot of things. I just don't know what to do anymore.
TL;DR - My husband's behavior is unhealthy and I don't know if I can take it anymore.
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