Would it be wrong to crash my boyfriend’s “beer night”?
Little Jet3|Aug. 13, 2019
My(23F) boyfriend(25M) goes to a specific bar/bartender(28?F) once a week (for the last few months) for his “beer night.” I was cool with that, as I get that everyone needs time to themselves and I am not a huge beer drinker anyway. But I asked him this week if I could go with him because I wanted to drink some beer and eat some food, and he completely freaked out and said that that is his time alone and that he doesn’t want me to go. I thought that was a weird reaction, and then I found out that he and the bartender had become friends on social media and were sending a lot of messages back and forth. He told me that they are just friends and that they just vent / send each other memes/funny pictures/etc. I also saw that he had said some mean things about me, but I get that everyone needs to vent sometimes, and he doesn’t have a whole lot of friends. They also text almost constantly. He has assured me that they are just friends, and he has never cheated on me before so I don’t know if he would. (We have been together for over 3 years)
Tl;dr: my boyfriend doesn’t want me to go to his beer night, because he may be into the bartender.
So, would I be an asshole for going to his “beer night” anyway, or should I just leave it alone?
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