It’s hard to believe that it’s been 13 years since Ben Flajnik graced television screens as the lead for Season 16 of The Bachelor. Flajnik was the runner-up on Season 7 of The Bachelorette with Ashley Hebert, then got his second chance at love as the Bachelor.

Although Flajnik got down on one knee and proposed to Courtney Robertson on the show, their engagement didn’t last long. Just months after the season finale aired, Flajnik and Robertson broke up in October 2012.